Six Seasons

珍惜拥有的一切 当它依然还在你身边 现在才了解 已过一光年 人为何总要失去挚爱才会懂得去学会 ........(书签) ...my song

Thursday, June 15, 2006

Thought of the day

read this quotation from a famous Taiwanese writer 吴淡如, which was posted on i 周刊 magazine. check it out:

“会死缠烂打的多数不是好男人,所以现在的女人要主动一点,因为好男人多半比较害羞"

she was implying that guys who are very aggressive in courtship are usually not good man. thus, women in today's society should take more initiative to court the good men of today, because these guys are usually the shy lot.

Do you personally agree with this statement? Do give it a thought.

Personally, i do not totally agree with this statement, even though it is pretty true to a large extent. but i can't help but to think: "is this quotation true for good women as well???" if dat is true, does that imply that good men and good women can never get together because both belong to the 'shy lot'?

2 Comments:

Blogger 寶寶 said...

well, in my opinion shy guys dun always means that they are always "good" as well as initiative gals in making a courtship 1st are not always "not good" since it depends on each person's characters.
...there's no rigid answer for such stuff rite? :D

7:08 PM  
Blogger Totally Chiangmai said...

hmm...agree with Baobao...in my opinion...it's not 100% true that shy people are better when it comes to courtship...besides...guys who are aggressive in courtship are not all playboy types...it might be that they are pretty sure of this love they have for their girls and expressing love is what girls want from their love ones...in this way...shy guys are boring...

9:58 PM  

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